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‘CHANGE MANAGEMENT’
IS THE NEED OF THE HOUR
BY P S SUNDAR
“Before
Facebook, we had real-life friends but after Facebook, we also have
virtual-life friends. In many cases,
nearly 75 per cent of these virtual-life friends are not known to us
personally! We maintain hypocrisy to
retain such virtual-friends in Facebook!
But a sad development is that we have lost some real-life friends
because of Facebook!”
I
mentioned this in the course of my key-note address on ‘Change Management’ at a
programme National Institute of HRD and Advancement (NIHA), New Delhi, had
organised for the executives of select Public Sector Units (PSU) from North
India just before Republic Day. And,
the executives cheered reflecting their personal experience of this.
Losing
real-life friends because of Facebook?
Yes. Once a person opens Facebook
Account and starts posting in it and Facebook Groups etc., his/her expectation
to receive many ‘likes’ goes up. And,
when he/she notes his real-life friend not marking ‘like’, displeasure starts,
irrespective of the insignificant content of posting. Relationship drifts to low-ebb if he/she notices
that a real-life friend marks ‘like’ for another’s posting and not for his/her
posting! Fortunately, there is no
provision to mark ‘hate’!
Very
petty issue, no doubt, but we cannot deny the existence of this culture in this
‘Facebook’ era. In some cases, quarrels
bordering slum-area public tap street-fights decimate the quality of Facebook
relationship. “To avoid intolerant
reciprocation, I pretend to welcome the posting first and then voice my dissent
to the crux!”, a friend told me. So, if
you voice dissent, enmity happens and if you keep ‘quite’, displeasure
settles. Besides, jealousy surfaces in
some cases when they see postings of going places!
And,
relationship crashes to new low when people notice that a ‘like’ has been
withdrawn or a ‘friend’ becomes ‘unfriend’.
Nevertheless,
we cannot ignore this time-consuming unproductive Facebook platform these
days. This is not a debate on the merit
or demerit, being addict or adjusting to it, but a stress on the reality that
admittedly, social medium has come into stay.
We get many communication, including business ones, through Facebook
messengers, Twitter, WhatsApp, Telegram etc besides SMS and e-mails.
I
reminded the PSU officers that even Prime Minister Narendra Modi communicates
to the country through Twitter forcing media, both print and electronic, quote
him from his tweets. Soon after the
cabinet meets, he communicates through Twitter. This calls for ‘change management’ in
communication.
For
that matter, since Modi took over in May 2014, there have been visible changes
in policies, strategies, institutions and technology usage besides
communication. There is a paradigm shift to establish ‘direct
connect’ with the people. Prime
Minister is encouraging people to send e-mails to him and his Ministers on many
important issues and during important occasions. Even police stations in many States have
started receiving complaints through WhatsApp.
And, the Prime Minster is directly answering people’s questions through
All India Radio. He did this along with
US President Barack Obama during the latter’s visit to India for Republic day.
Changes
are also visible in the form of National Institute for Transforming India (NITI
Aayog) replacing Planning Commission and becoming a policy think-tank rather
than fund-allotter to states. Prime
Minister’s ‘Swachh Bharat Abhiyan’ (clean India mission) has become a
catch-word and so will ‘Beti Bachao Beti Padao’ (girl child welfare). Direct Benefit Transfer (DBT) of LPG subsidy
(PAHAL) linking with Aadhar has come into operation. Pradhan Mantri Jan Dhan Yojana has entered
into Guinness Book of World Records for opening 11.5 crore bank accounts in
just five months. Government has planned
to transfer Rs 15,000 crore annually directly to beneficiaries’ accounts for
rural employment. Likewise, over Rs
51,000 crore had already been transferred under various rural job schemes to
direct bank accounts.
All
these call for ‘change management’.
(article published in March 2015 issue of THE NILGIRI ROTARIAN).
A very good analysis on how facebook has taken over our real "emotional" attachments to it. We want the friend whom we meet every day to take his time and go to all our postings and post a like, despite he may have 100s of friends and other worries in life. Truly this needs "change management" skills.
ReplyDeletenice to see this, Viju.. thanks
ReplyDeletePunita Dani, Chithra Parameswaran, Dinesh Raju, Vishnu Muralidharan like this article ..
ReplyDeletethanks to all..
DeleteRespected Sir, Once again, your article on Change Mgt was very practical. The way you gave the example of Facebook in daily life is remarkable and in reality- this is happening. Further Thanks a ton for mentioning NIHA during your article Regards
ReplyDeleteSanjay Sharma,
Director,
NIHA, New Delhi.
many thanks, Sanjay
DeleteSir,
ReplyDeleteYour blog on "Change management - is the need of the hour., is a thought provoking and a timely message. As you pointed out the personal touch on friendship is fading away, to sustain the real life friendship, Your advise on change management on the use of the modern IT tools will certainly change the roles of such tools more meaningful and progressive for mankind.
I enjoyed reading your blog. Keep writing.
With warm regards,
Dr. B. Sekar
DIRECTOR, PASTEUR INSTITUTE OF INDIA, COONOOR.
many thanks, Dr Sekar,.
DeleteNice article, uncle! Good to hear from you.
ReplyDeleteHAREESH PARTHASARATHY..
USA
thanks, Hareesh..
Deleteyour article is thought provocating as well as very informative. I think showing displeasure to a real friend in the facebook for not marking "Like" is quiet abusurd unless one is very sensitive in nature. There may be many reasons for not marking "Like" by the real friend. The real friend might have missed to note the posting in the midst of 100s of daily postings received from 1000s of friends in the facebook account, or, he may not be in town and thus not opened the facebook account for many days. A real friendship or relationship should not get broken for this simple reason by involvement with facefook and other social media."
ReplyDeleteK G VEERARAGHAVAN .. DUBAI
thanks, Ravi ,, that's what I have written in my article ..
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