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PS SUNDAR'S ARTICLE ON HIS SON - 7  :::

OCT 21, 2014


NOBEL LAUREATE AND NOBLE SOUL


BY P S SUNDAR

I do not know this year’s Peace Nobel Laureate Malala Yousafzai of Pakistan any more than most Indians know.   All the information is what media, print and electronic, have given us since a terrorist shot her in her school bus on Oct 9, 2012, when she was 15 years aged.  She survived, thanks to the timely treatment at Queen Elizabeth Hospital in Birmingham, UK, which, perhaps, is the cause for this Nobel Prize for, in the event of, God forbid, the misfortune succumbing to the attack, she would not have had the honour of addressing the UN as she did to a standing ovation in July last year or launching the Malala charity fund or meeting Queen Elizabeth or US President Barak Obama – all major events that helped her enjoy the Nobel honour now.

Despite all these and in unquestionable reverence to her contribution to education of girl child in denied communities, I wonder if the Norwegian Parliamentary Committee which bestowed Nobel Prize on her was right in making the 60 year aged Indian Kailash Satyarthi to share the honour with this 17 years aged girl.   Not only the incomparable age, but even the contribution of Satyarthi is beyond match – he is credited to have freed about 80,000 child labourers across India over 30 years with more than 70,000 individuals and 750 civil society organisations working for his movement.   He had also been hit by anti-social elements.  But, admittedly, most of us did not know of him nor the Government honoured him at the highest level but may be, now that he is a Nobel laureate, he might be honoured with Bharath Ratna soon. 

So, what Satyarthi has done to deserve Nobel Prize is far higher than what Malala has done and for all she has done in this young age, the very honour to address UN and receive standing ovation is the highest recognition.  She can and must do much more in the years to come and, perhaps, Nobel Prize could have been awarded in consideration of all her work in due course.  To some extent, I tend to observe that the Nobel Prize should be for merit rather than mercy. 

Having opined thus, I cannot resist applauding the magnanimity of the Nobel awarding team in selecting Malala for the coveted prize because she has, braving terrorism, taught the elders the need to educate girls.  

That’s where I see heart-moving comparison with our son Vignesh who left us this day forever in 2003, just 16 days after his 16th birthday.  Like Malala’s, Vignesh’s life was full of teaching for us.  My wife and I learnt a lot from him – 

bravery as he braved even growing physical disorder while confined to wheelchair with day-to-day normalcy, 

positive approach as he encouraged even the terminally-disillusioned parents with smiling countenance to create normal ambiance, 

maturity as he understood and accepted the shortness of his life caused by the consuming gravity of the incurable muscular dystrophy, 

endurance as he made every ailing second an enjoyable moment, 

quest for improvement as he acquired knowledge and talent unmindful of the fast-approaching end to life, 

motivation as he helped everyone possible with this knowledge so-acquired to advance in life, 

humaneness as he proved to us the joy of caring and giving to the world the whole of our body and 

leadership as he proved his importance more in his absence than in his presence. 

Truly, as William Wordsworth said, “The child is the father of Man”. 

Malala is a Nobel Laureate; Vignesh was (is) a Noble Soul.


 


66 comments:

  1. A moving article. Vignesh continues to live in his parents and their memories. Truly "The child is the father of Man ".

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  2. Mahlakshmi has written from Bangalore:

    Excellent athimber. Well thought out and touching

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  3. R Muralidharan, General manager, Gateway Hotel Coonoor has written::

    Dear Sir & Madam:: We pray for Vignesh today.. will remember him always:: Murali & family

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  4. Sir,I know him... we pray for Vignesh.....

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  5. Dear Sir & Madam.... A well written tribute. Vignesh comes live through your article. We pray for his soul today.

    Vibhakar & Swetha

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  6. R Subramanian (Australia / Coimbatore has written as under:

    Dear Sundarappa,

    Hope you are fine. I read your article. It was very heartmoving.

    Really no doubt he is a noble soul. He is ever in all our hearts.

    I have a small rendering to him

    VIGNESH - MY INSPIRER

    Dear Vignesh,

    It was on this day 11 years ago you left us alone. You were really a brave hearted person. Though you were physically confined in a wheelchair, your mental limit was sky or, if anything, is more than that it could be considered. You taught me how to gain confidence in life and how to induce willpower with me. You were a versatile person, it doesn’t really matter in which area you kept your footstep you had come out with colours.

    In our childhood, we used to play lot of games. But when I think about them now, I can understand what great thinking you had at that infant age. Normally, toddlers just play with toys given to them and never think about anything beyond. You were solitary in that aspect – your business intelligence was exhibited in the bus game which we played as well as the ideas you imposed when playing with building blocks.

    From our tenderfoot, we were together and those golden days which we spent were irreplaceable and unforgettable. In spite of your ailment, you were very kindhearted which you maintained throughout your life. This is the main reason you are in the hearts of very many people. You never hesitated to share your knowledge, this shows your magnanimity. You had tutored people of various other disciplines and paved way for their successful career.

    Finally, I wish to say one thing you are, no wonder, a noble soul. Our family has lost such a great person and the loss cannot be compensated. There is not even a day we had without a single moment of your memories. Not everyone’s memory is living ages and ages; only very few kindhearted souls get this credence and you are one among them.

    I really miss you, my lovable brother. I am trying my maximum level best to follow your footsteps of helping needy and implementing the same to a possible extent. I request you to kindly continue showering blessings on me on all my walks of life.

    Affectionately,
    Harish


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  7. Very nice article, Sundar uncle. Nicely sculptured with laureate!!!

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  8. Sriram Sundaram of Indian Institute of Science Education and Research, Kolkata wrote::

    No words can express my feelings right now after reading your article Mama. I hope that you are doing good as usual. My love and regards to Mami.

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  9. Jamuna Raju wrote from Abu Dhabi:: uncle, I don't want you to be sad.. I can feel it

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  10. Hareesh Parthasarathy wrote from the US::

    Very nice article, uncle.. really a touching one. May our prayers wish Vignesh be with you all.

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  11. K G Veeraraghavan wrote from Dubai::

    Though we have not seen Vignesh through our eyes, his picture has been imprinted deeply in our heart by the way you described him and narrated his whole events during his shorter period of life. He is a great soul and, I believe, he took a shorter birth to complete his prarabda Karmas. Although his physical body has disappeared from this earth, he always lives in everybody's heart who knows him personally or not. Great people will never die, they will always remain with everyone in their hearts.


    On this day we pray for his soul to remain peacefully at His heavenly abode.

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  12. Neeraj Jain wrote from Coonoor::::Vignesh will always be an inspiration for all of us..And he would always be remembered in our prayers.

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  13. Glenn and Danieela of Stanes Anglo Indian HS School wrote::So beautifully expressed. ..would have loved to have met and get to know this spirited young boy.... but he lives through what he left behind n what so many would have learnt from him...Today we join you to celebrate his life....truly a Noble life worth celebrating. Warmest regards to ma'am and you. Know that His grace is sufficient.

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  14. John Nelson wrote: our thoughts are with you as you fondly remember Vignesh especially you still have the same affection though he is physically absent. May the Lord strengthen you more!!!\

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  15. Benedict Edward wrote from Coimbatore::

    Dear Mr.Sundar,

    While the loss of a loved one is never easy, even when anticipated, it is most certainly the hardest when they are taken from us too soon. Your loss of your son who has left us at such a youthful age is definitely in the category of those hard losses for which there is so painful a reminder of what might have been.

    Please accept my belated sincere condolence and deepest sympathy on your loss. May the outpouring of sympathy, the kind acts of friends and strangers and the comfort in knowing that your loss is felt by many, help you through this difficult time.

    I ask for God's blessings on you and your wonderful family. May you find the courage and strength to move forward in peace and confidence and in knowing that his was a life well-lived.

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  16. Sabeena (Zynab Fathima) wrote from Dhaka::

    Uncle , I'm speechless he is an inspiration for all of us and he will give you more and more strength in the form of writing...
    Very well said "the child is a father of man".excellent article!!
    Please don't be sad.

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  17. M Lakshman, Managing Director, Devashola (Nilgiri) Tea Estes Co Ltd wrote: :

    Dear Sundar,

    Very nicely worded write up.

    Lakshman

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  18. Dr Ramakrishnan Nanjundan wrote:Prayers & wishes to you & sir on Vignesh's anniversary. There is no death for the soul. As the article says he has taught us the valuable qualities even after his departure.

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  19. Dr Harshavardhan wrote::: I know

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  20. Sir, Vignesh lives on in spirit, in both his noble parents. A touching tribute. The love that your lives have seen, is beyond any prize. God bless.

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  21. Sruthi wrote from Dubai ;;;;

    I read the article on Think Tank. Once again, I wish I had got to meet Vignesh Anna. But in my heart, I know that right now he is in a much better place and at peace.

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  22. V M Govind Krishnan wrote from New Delhi::

    Nic article on Shared Nobel prize v/s a Noble soul

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  23. Shobana Chandrasekhar wrote from Ooty::

    My thoughts are with both of you today, Sir. Although I did not know your son, I am inspired by him to live in the moment, and give the most of myself to the world in that moment. Thanks for sharing.

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  24. Dr George Jayaprakash wrote from Coonoor::

    We are with you both with our prayers. God will grant you both the strength as your thoughts will be focussed on a great person who was a living example to many

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  25. Sheetal Gupta wrote from Coonoor::

    Vignesh is an inspiration for us & he will always remain in our hearts !

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  26. Dear uncle... I may not have met Vignesh but he comes alive every time I read your article.. Vignesh indeed is an inspiring personality and we would always remember him.

    Regards,
    Aishwarya Lakshmi

    L

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  27. Sanjay Sharma, Director, National Institute of HRD & Advancement, New Delhi, has written :: Absolutely moving....

    Though I have not personally met Vignesh, yet through your words, I feel that I have missed an opportunity to meet him. Am thankful to GOD for bringing you in our life, but it would've been much better if the same could ve been a few years earlier....

    Really I can imagine VIGNESH as a true leader, whose absence has led to a vacuum, which none of us can fill up in your life..... YET Sir, you can look ahead to your younger brother (you can regard me so) and everyone here at home- who are always there with both of you.

    Regards

    Sanjay

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  28. V M Govind Krishnan has written from New Delhi::

    I've read all your touching articles on Dear Vignesh....Though I've not personally met or interacted with him, I do recollect seeing him several years ago, when he was in school. May his soul be ever blessed.

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  29. Sitha Sambasiva Rao wrote from Hongkong::

    Dear uncle and aunty
    The article is really beautiful and more than that it is the truth

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  30. Norman Wood of Coonoor has written::

    Truly it has touched a chord in my heart,especially the comparison with your loving son,Vignesh. Norman

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  31. G Premanand, Gen Secretary, YMCA, Coonoor, has written::Sir, I still remember the day when Vignesh left us.I was the first one came to "SKANDAM" soon after hearing the news. While there are no words to say, please know that our thoughts and our prayers are always with you. "He will wipe away every tear from their eyes, and death shall be no more, neither shall there be mourning, nor crying, nor pain anymore, for the former things have passed away.” -Revelation 21:4

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  32. Dear Sundar, Please accept my sincere apology for this belated reply. The message is reallly a heart rendering one. Only you have the ability to convey the felings in a very apt way.I am proud to be one of your friend. The memory about Vignesh will live on for ever. A great boy who is beyond comparison for his age. I am deeeply moved. My regards to you and Ms Sundar who is your silent supporter. Hats off to you friend! With Best Regards/ rvc

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  33. Nice article....heart touching words...

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